The Agreement
Appendix 3: The Group Dating Agreement (as amended)
- I will always treat everyone in the group fairly, equally, and with respect, but that doesn’t mean I have to do something with one person just because I did it with another.
- I will not be jealous of anything that anyone else does or engages in with anyone else in this group (male or female).
- I will always receive the explicit consent of my partner(s) before engaging in any potentially sexual activity and will respond in compliance with their wishes.
- I will abstain from skin-to-skin genital contact until at least age 16 and from sexual penetration until at least age 17; oral sex is not considered penetration.
- I will always have the option of declining any advance of any kind from any partner and it will be honored, even if we’ve done it before.
- I may date others who have not signed this agreement if they agree to abide by it during our date.
- I may leave this group at any time for any reason and still maintain my friendship and camaraderie with the members of this group.
- We are not a clique. We are just dating each other.
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